436 Dirty Talk Examples To Turn Your Partner On
You don’t have to be an erotica novelist or fanfic author to crush the dirty talk game. Here’s some inspiration for dirty things to say to your partner to keep sexual energy flowing in your relationship. If you decide to test out a new conversation topic, take it slow.
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This is more likely if you have limited experience or knowledge in the practice. Gabrielle Kassel (she/her) is a queer sex educator and wellness journalist who is committed to helping people feel the best they can in their bodies. In addition to Healthline, her work has appeared in publications such as Shape, Cosmopolitan, Well+Good, Health, Self, Women’s Health, Greatist, and more!
- This practice will make experimenting with dirty talk easier during sex,” says Rullo.
- As you get more comfortable, Engle recommends getting more specific with your wording.
- So think about what words make you feel great about your sexuality.
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The anticipation you build by talking will arouse your partner a lot more. “Have clear conversations about what each of your boundaries, desires and comfort levels are and have agreed upon language and cues if things change during the dirty talk experience,” she adds. This is because it gives the other person a heads up on what is enjoyed in a space that is without time pressure and with privacy. “With a mindset of curiosity, simply explore your partner’s thoughts and feelings around dirty talk and then share your own thoughts/feelings,” she says.
“Little signals or texts or messages can help ensure that by the time you’re getting physical with someone, the dirty talk will just feel like a natural progression,” says Eros. The Best Women’s Erotica of the Year volumes, edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel, are a great place to start. You might also try listening with your partner to the storytelling erotica app Dipsea or any number of other audio erotica apps. This type of dirty talk entails stepping into your own mini movie and directing the action, aka telling someone else or yourself exactly what to do. “Directing can sound like, ‘Take your pants off,’ or ‘Turn around and turn over,’” says Dr. Tara. And in this context, the commands can come across as an arousing kind of dominance.
A comment like that will probably push them over the edge and have them pouncing on you. This is partially because men and women are wired differently. Guys are more singular in their focus, whereas women can hold many things in their mind at once when it comes to sexual arousal. This is especially crucial if your partner is a woman. Women, in particular, are often aroused through the imagination. This is why erotic books like 50 Shades of Gray are infamous smash hits among female readers.
Sex is supposed to be fun — there’s no reason why you guys have to take it so seriously. But in the wake of the #MeToo and #TimesUp movements, I’ve been forced to reckon with my own history of harassment. And while I recognize that some women are turned on by hearing words like “slut” and “whore” during sex, for me, it just doesn’t sit well. If you’re still looking for inspiration or just want to make your dirty talk even dirtier (I don’t blame ya!), there are plenty of erotic texts, apps, and other resources out there to help get your ideas flowing. A lot of the times, you might find yourself enjoying being called things by your lover that you wouldn’t like in any other context.
- For dirty talk to be successful, it has to be tit for tat.
- Talking dirty introduces an additional sense (hearing) to any sexcapade, which stimulates the brain in a way that goes beyond just touch.
- I think dirty talking sets the tone and gives a great emotional and mental headspace to say stuff you normally might feel too shy to say.
- No woman wants to be thinking about pet care while having sex.
- “Women are more auditory and men are more visual,” she said.
But aside from the fact that you might get stage fright and struggle to remember them in the heat of the moment, if such phrases feel unnatural or forced, they’re likely not going to feel sexy. Instead, think of a way of saying it that makes you feel a little more you. You can start off by trying a few slightly dirty things and then work your way up to your preferred amount of filth. Like anything worth doing well, it usually takes a bit of practice to build your confidence up. At first, talking dirty can feel awkward, clumsy or even embarrassing. But once you realize it’s just extra, sexy level of communication with your man it can heat your sexual life up more than you ever imagined.
Eye them now, copy and paste, repeat, or read them your boo later. The comfort you feel with yourself and in your relationship is a crucial factor in talking dirty. You already know the right dirty things to say to during sex, before sex, and after sex—all that’s left is for you to go for it. While it might seem like something straight out of erotic literature or a steamy movie scene, it’s useful for elevating communication in the bedroom.
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If you want to make your sex life better and wow your partner, you’ll need some examples to get you started. Just tell them that you want to try talking dirty but you’re nervous. They’ll be impressed that you’re willing to overcome your nerves and hang ups.